Have you tried to watch pornography with your partner and dissolved into a fit of giggles? Have you given it a go and found it really super awkward? or did you think it was a huge turn-on and now incorporate it regularly into your sex life?
I'm writing an article for Cosmo magazine about how to watch porn with your partner, and exploring other's experiences - and I'd love to hear about yours!
Interested in hearing from all women who are happy to briefly share their experience - please comment below (anonymously, if you like) with the low-down!
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yes but it's not good to watch with my partner
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I think it varies - I watch porn with my partner, but we're both into similar porn. Some things do look rehearsed, but porn is porn - is it because a lot of people brand it as taboo? Or, they put a brand on it and watch in their own private time because they're embarrassed? I guess there are a few that simply aren't aware of the feeling (and therefore don't tune in) that can emerge from watching something erotic or sexy, or whatever enters their fantasies of sex and romance.
ReplyDeleteI can't say I watched much of any porn, ever, before I met my fiancé. And at first I felt unattached to it, in a way that was 'Oh my god what the hell is happening' but when you find what is right for you, then you fall into it! Without watching and reading into it, without trying to see and understand the preparation or staged atmosphere of it.
It depends completely on the person, how much trust they have in a partner, and what the perceive sex and intimacy as. If you're completely different people in the bedroom, and find you can't talk about it, then what happens to the relationship? Could one or the other be inclined to find someone else? Or, if you can talk to the other partner in the relationship and find a common ground for both then there is no saying why it shouldn't work. You have to be true to yourself.