Use water-based lube, as much
as you want. Oil is not a lube. Pawpaw cream is not a lube. Body butter is not
a lube. Spit is a good back-up lube – it’s naturally occurring, water-based and
free. But it does dry up quickly, so better to invest in a quality lube, as a
little bit can go a long way.
Especially for your first time, lube is absolutely essential.
Especially for your first time, lube is absolutely essential.
Having to use lube is not a sign you’re not
aroused enough – sometimes the vagina doesn’t lubricate naturally quite as much
as other times. This can be due to where you are in your menstrual cycle and
other hormonal changes, as well as distractions and just pure variation – as
much as we would like to believe, we are not sex machines and we can’t expect
to behave as such.
MaxxxBlack have an amazing range - I recommend Intimate Organics HYDRA.
Can also be fun! Water based spearmint lube is a personal fave. Love that tingle.
ReplyDeleteagreed - flavoured lubes are great, especially if you're not super keen on oral sex!
ReplyDeleteKeep those lubes natural - spraying pesticides anywhere is not a good idea. My personal fave is coconut oil, it's nutritious and delicious.
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